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Message from Suki!!!!
Hi Arvind,
I am so sorry for not getting back to you....what can I say I have got loads on
Neeta.
She is on my wedding video and all she does all day is CRY...you know she was my
bridesmaid and I think she was really upset because she knew me before Steve.
Neeta and I sat together on the first day of secondary school, Stoke Park. We
must have been 10 years old when we first met.
Obviously she was the quiet and shy one and I was the loud big-mouthed
one, of course Neeta always got into trouble not for being loud or cheeky BUT
just because she laughed all the time.
Our Biology teacher (Mr Rattigan) always told her off for giggling, but it
was usually my fault. Neeta was always a smiler...the best thing that I remember
was when a boy called Gareth fancied Neeta and used the excuse of playing
badminton to see her. I knew he liked her but Neeta said he was just interested
in her strokes....mmmmmm I wonder!!!
Neeta had loads of boys that fancied her throughout her school life but of
course she thought that nobody did...how wrong she was.
Loads of the girls especially one (Neeta will know who I am talking about)
envied Neeta because of this very reason. Also because Neeta was a well liked
girl with her generous and caring nature.
She hasn't changed she is still a great girl and she is MY BEST FRIEND!!!!
Arvind, I could go on forever, I will try and give you some more instalments in
the week.....I am still trying to dig out some photos as well.
Speak soon
Sukie
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Darling Neeta (BB),
Hope you have a fantastic 30th birthday, and wish you all the very best
for the future.
Thanks for ALWAYS being there when I needed you and giving great advise (even
though at the time it seemed like a nag!).
Carry on being your lovely self and you will never go wrong in your life.
You really are an inspiration and it is wonderful having you as a
mate.
With lots of love, hugs and kisses
BBX
(Shanti!!!)
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Dearest Neeta,
Have a great birthday.
Thank you for being a wonderful friend - and for always being there.
Lots of love, kisses and hugs.
Dal
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Dearest Neeta,
All the best in the world for your 30th birthday. I know this will mark an
amazing and special decade for you. You mean a lot to so many people and it has
been a pleasure knowing you and being your friend. I know you will continue to
do the great work you are doing to help as many people around the world and
share yourself with others. Wishing you luck with it all and a great year ahead.
Love, light and joy always,
Hillit

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Happy birthday party girl.
No doubt you will put away gallons of alki so that those dancing moves could be
perfected.
Lists of things to do and people to nag would be all perfected with age and
experience.
But I wouldn't wish for a better friend than yourself.
I love your kindness, your energy, and your flapjacks.
Trusha

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Comments about Neeta... hmmmmmm let me think...
The COLGATE smile
The DURACELL BUNNY - hop hop hop... too damn energetic... remember Flopsy with
the floppy ears
The PINCH & SLAP - Do NOT get on the wrong side of this woman... it'll hurt &
you'll be bruised all over
And last but definitely not the least.... The NAGS !!!!
I'm sure Hang will have something very similar to say too
Sanjay Shah

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Arvind
Here goes....
Firstly, I would like to agree with Sanjay. He is spot on.....
I would like to add some more:-
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'It's not a laughing matter'
'INNITTTT'
'Bus' 'Cup' in her midlands accent
Her endless energetic dancing.....MARATHON BUNNY
Her strong affinity for her favourite food 'MUSHROOMS' and her nickname ' MUSHY'
Yes...THE NAGS and hence her being named NAG QUEEN

Overall........
Neeta has been a great friend to all of us who know her well. Recently she has
displayed an inner display of strength and her self belief and subsequent
confidence resulting has made her even more endearing. She may be approaching 30
but I believe the best years are just around the other side of 30 and I am glad
I have known her since our early days at Kings.
And to add that she now has now plucked her eyebrows compared to the early
pictures when she was in her early 20s. [Do you have any early photos Arvind?]
Hang - you do have a point. See the pictures below! Arvind
Before.........
After
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Neeta
The woman with the sunflower smile, an abundant heart that gives with elegaance
& caring.
Long may you celebrate life with your friends & family
Long may you be responsible for gathering people together be it at a community
level or for a worthwhile fund-raising cause.
Long may you share food & time with loved ones and dance till dawn.
Love Lucie

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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves,
who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be?
You are a child of god.
Your playing small doesnıt serve the world.
Thereıs nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people wonıt feel
insecure around you.
We were born to manifest the glory of god that is within us. Itıs not just in
some of us, itıs in everyone.
As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission
to do the same.
As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates
others.
Marianne Williamson.
Neeta Devalia - brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous -
Happy Birthday - with love from Brent.
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Dear Arvind,
Everyone is well here and please place the following message for
Neeta:
Here is a saying from mum which she read in a book:-
MAY THE FRIENDS OF OUR YOUTH BE COMPANIONS OF OUR OLD AGE.
from one old person to a young person
Please convey our best wishes and we trust that the forthcoming year will bring
her all that she hopes for.
Vinoomassi (Pondicherry), Nimesh, Neeta and Lily

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I would like to say the following: "...wishing you every happiness this
coming year...you are a lovely, charming woman!"
Kindest regards
Lucy Leech
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Neeta is:
Passionate about people, life and the world
absolutely determined to do what needs to be done
highly perceptive and intelligent about human beings
courageous and unstoppable in all things she chooses
loving, caring and consistent at all times -
a gorgeous woman with a strong light to shine
the best coach in the world ever
lots of love for the best birthday ever,
Sally Ramsden
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Hi Arvind,
I would just like to say that from the first moment that I met your sister, she
seemed to have a lovely smile and character that made everyone around her feel
good. She is a warm and genuine person who is also extremely inspiring for
others. It is truly amazing what she has achieved in such a short time and she
must follow her heart as I believe it will take her to a wonderful place. I wish
her well in everything that she does.
Love Jasmine

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Hi Arvind
What a great idea doing this website for Neeta!
Please add the following
To the girl with the lovely smile...
HAPPY BIRTHDAY NEETA
- Craig
See you on Sat - (Craig Hudson Bennett)
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Dearest Neeta,
I am sorry that I cannot come to your Birthday bash. I really hope that you
have a great time.
My brothers and I really appreciated the time when you took the trouble to check up on
our father. It was a very kind gesture, and one cannot forget such little
kindnesses that make the world a better place.
I hope that all the good karma that you sow, comes back to you.
Love Rupert (Nimal)
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Dearest Neeta,
Happy Partying!!!
Wishing you continued fun and laughter in your 30's......
Lots of love
Shreeti
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Neeta,
May you be blessed with a life of bliss, joy, love, peace and prosperity! Love,
Smita (Joshi)
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Get ready to live the best years of your life--now
you're old enough to know better and young enough to
live it any which way you like! -happy birthday-
Manisha Shahane (Boston)

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Message: To you a happy birthday, with best wishes for your happiness
everyday and for ever. Be happy.
Bharat and Alison. XXXXX
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Dear Arvind,
Would you please wish Neeta a very happy birthday from me and Di.
Tell her she is not only very attractive but has a wonderful personality and
is very clever
That's from me.
Love and best wishes
Rodney & Diane
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Hi Neeta and Arvind,
I gather that although I'm late I can still include a few words about Neeta.
Neeta you looked so beautiful and full of life at your birthday party and it
made me think how much you've accomplished since we did the advanced course
together-you ARE a truly transformed woman! The other thing I want to say is
thank you for continuing to include me in your life and for all the parties you
have caused. Who else would have done it?
All my love,
Antonia.
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Arvind
Your website on Neeta is beautiful, and rightly so for such a beautiful person.
It has been a pleasure to view, and has built a bridge from Angola (Neeta will
explain) to London.
Neeta is a very special woman. She has such a positive effect on those around
her, that she is electric. My life has been enhanced since our meeting.
Well done on the website.
Now I must go and dry my eyes!
Regards
Tony (Stead)
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